{"id":485,"date":"2011-01-12T12:13:34","date_gmt":"2011-01-12T17:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/?p=485"},"modified":"2011-01-12T12:13:34","modified_gmt":"2011-01-12T17:13:34","slug":"accepting-my-limitations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/?p=485","title":{"rendered":"Accepting my Limitations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Lord; Good morning Father, and happy Wednesday.\u00a0 Well, first off I want to thank You for limiting the snowfall in our neck of the woods.\u00a0 What potentially could have been a huge mess ended up being limited to a 3 &#8211; 4\u201d coating that simply covered everything with a pretty white blanket.\u00a0 The kids still got a day off of school but everything else seems to be moving along as normal, for which I\u2019m very much appreciative.<\/p>\n<p>Today Father, I\u2019d like to discuss one of my biggest challenges if I may.\u00a0 I Lord, am a \u201cfixer\u201d; my nature is to try to fix things no matter what.\u00a0 While in many cases that can be a positive character trait, in some situations it ends up causing more trouble than helping.\u00a0 This morning was a case in point for the latter.<\/p>\n<p>Shannon had a very rough night and didn\u2019t sleep well due to some pain in her legs, and woke a little on the edgy side.\u00a0 I tried talking with her about it and after several pointed questions to see what I could do to help, it became apparent that all I was doing was aggravating her further.\u00a0 I completely misread the situation and in my efforts to \u201csolve a problem\u201d I missed the point and handled it poorly.\u00a0 Thinking about it on my ride to work this morning, I realized that this part of my nature needs to be more carefully tempered going forward.\u00a0 For that to happen, when my urge to \u201cjump in\u201d strikes I need to remember a couple truths :<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019m not in control.\u00a0 I can\u2019t fix everything.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While I actually do know this Father, my brain sometimes ignores these seemingly simple facts when I see something I feel that I can help with.\u00a0 I need to know when to simply sit and listen, and when to realize that things are outside my scope and to leave them in Your Loving Care.<\/p>\n<p>Heavenly Father, please steer and temper my yearning spirit.\u00a0 Help me make good choices as to how I can best serve Your Will, and to be the best Child of God that I can. \u00a0Where I can be of help, may Your Presence be my Guide to a positive end.\u00a0 However when my involvement is not warranted, please help me recognize my limitations and lift those situations to Your Care.\u00a0 In You, all things are possible Lord.\u00a0 Amen.<\/p>\n<p>~Phather Phil<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Lord; 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