{"id":400,"date":"2010-12-03T10:23:39","date_gmt":"2010-12-03T15:23:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/?p=400"},"modified":"2010-12-03T10:23:39","modified_gmt":"2010-12-03T15:23:39","slug":"the-divine-litmus-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/?p=400","title":{"rendered":"The Divine Litmus Test"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Lord; Whew\u2026 What a crazy morning it\u2019s been Father.\u00a0 In addition to the normal first-thing rushing around to get everyone ready for work and school, today we had to contend with a grumpy almost-11-year-old who apparently was still disgruntled from an argument over homework with his mother the night before.\u00a0 His mood of course, did nothing to expedite all of us getting out of the house on time, and we found ourselves running to get out the door.\u00a0 In the car on the way to school, I got the chance to try and talk with him about his behavior and when that was met with resistance, I hit him with the bomb; \u201cJonathan, if Jesus was standing next to you right now, how do you think he\u2019d feel about your behavior?\u201d\u00a0 That got his attention.\u00a0 He looked down at his lap and mumbled something about how he knew Jesus wouldn\u2019t approve, and his demeanor seemed to lighten a bit.\u00a0 I challenged him to think about that question more over the course of the day, and told him we\u2019d talk more when I got home.<\/p>\n<p>After dropping the kids off at school, I started playing things back in my head and thinking about the question I asked him in a larger context.\u00a0 It dawned on me that this was really an inquiry that we should all ask ourselves on a more regular basis.\u00a0 Yes, I do try to make decisions based on what my beliefs say are correct and I do try to listen for Your Guidance over the course of my day, but I certainly know I\u2019m imperfect and don\u2019t always make the right calls for every situation.\u00a0 Therefore Father, over this Season of Celebration I\u2019m going to try to spend more time putting my actions and judgment to the same litmus test I asked of my son this morning.\u00a0 My hope is that by putting myself under the proverbial \u201cHoly Microscope\u201d more often I can gain further understanding of Your Will, and be a better husband, father, businessman, and Child of God.\u00a0 Amen.\u00a0 ~Phather Phil<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Lord; Whew\u2026 What a crazy morning it\u2019s been Father.\u00a0 In addition to the normal first-thing rushing around to get everyone ready for work and school, today we had to contend with a grumpy almost-11-year-old who apparently was still disgruntled from an argument over homework with his mother the night before.\u00a0 His mood of course, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3],"tags":[288,289,294,302,296,286,303,154,292,287,173,285,299,301,295,269,116,298,297,230,291,290,284,174,265,227,300,157,138,293],"class_list":["post-400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daily-emails-to-god","tag-argument","tag-behavior","tag-beliefs","tag-businessman","tag-celebration","tag-child","tag-child-of-god","tag-decisions","tag-demeanor","tag-disgruntled","tag-father","tag-grumpy","tag-holy-microscope","tag-husband","tag-imperfect","tag-jesus","tag-jonathan","tag-judgment","tag-litmus-test","tag-mother","tag-question","tag-resistance","tag-rushing","tag-school","tag-season","tag-shannon","tag-understanding","tag-wife","tag-work","tag-wwjd"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p18mMc-6s","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=400"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":402,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400\/revisions\/402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=400"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=400"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.phatherphil.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=400"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}